Hi! 

I am Ruxandra and I am an introvert. Talking about myself it’s not my favourite thing, so here are some things I thought you would like to know about me.

Who am I and what am I doing?

I am transformational coach and a relaxation and stress management practitioner.

I’m also certified in clinical hypnosis, a Reiki master and for some, a spiritual teacher.

I have a background of nursing people with dementia.

I love creating content that inspires, empowers and motivates. I have a blog and a YouTube channel and I create content as much as my spare times allows.

My life so far

I started my career as a reporter when I was 18 which led to my own TV show in Romania.
I then worked in sales, on a farm and as a bartender.
I have tried a lot of jobs but nothing seemed to make me happy.

I had always been eager to try new things and to meet new people. I studied languages in high school and then studied Law to please my parents. I couldn’t see myself working as a lawyer and so I decided to go for nursing instead.
I studied nursing for 3 years and this helped me to understand my caring nature and led me to an unique opportunity to change my life completely. It brought me here, to Scotland. I came to find myself. I came to let my past and some of my toxic relationships behind. I had never dreamed of leaving my country, yet here I am, enjoying my life and working towards a better version and helping others to do the same for themselves.

My values are growth,  kindness, compassion and empowerment. 

My mission is to live a purposeful life and that’s why coaching is a dream accomplished. I love seeing people blooming, embracing their gifts. Coaching helped me in a big way and I believe 110% in its power. I’ve seen people changing their lives and their joy is my biggest motivator.

My beliefs. I believe in God and I don’t. Being a Christian, I’ve been thaught that God is a man with beard, sitting somewhere in the clouds. I’m not sexist, so my God is the energy that flows through us, drives us and is full of love, kindness and compassion. I am rather a pantheist.

I am on a spiritual journey and I had the chance to awaken to something that most eyes don’t want to accept.

I embrace diversity.

I love people but I love spending time on my own.

My side of genius is seing and understanding things on a deeper level. I have experienced life fully and that brought me the capacity of not judging people. I failed big and I succeeded big. Sometimes I get lost as well and that’s why I have my own coach. 

Why outofmatrixcoach? Simply because matrix means a set of social, political, or cultural conditions in which something develops or takes place.- Macmillan English dictionary 2006And I do believe in the uniqueness of people. One size doesn’t fit all. Most of our doubts and lack of confidence come from a society that established some roles for all of us. I don’t rebel against rules, but I can see beyond them. And so do you.